If you are not ready to do that, and if she doesn't understand it as well, then you should find a Christian or Hindu girl, they make up 10% of the Indonesian people so it's not that hard to find.
Age Gap: The age difference, quite common in expats/Indonesian girls’ couples, is less a problem than one could imagine.
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If you find out she is lying to you, do not tolerate it and walk away from the relationship.
- Control yourself: Adapt your lifestyle too and try to spend less than usual.
The situation faced by many expats is that they don't mind paying, because they understand that the girl cannot afford some expenses that are clearly part of the "expat lifestyle".
However, they do not want to be considered as cash cows or walking ATMs.
How do you arrange her coming to your home country?