In BDSM you want to always be who you want to be, not who someone else wants you to be.
Bdsm allows you to escape from the every day life the outside world and lets you be whoever you want to be, and do the things you want to do.
How do I write and create a good BDSM dating profile?
Writing a BDSM Dating profile can be a bit difficult for some people, because they are not used to just discussing certain aspects of their lives, or fantasies with people they do not know well right off the bat.
Communication and trust are the most important thing in BDSM, so you want to make sure your potential partners are interested in the same things that you are.