That guy may never open up to the idea of a relationship, and you don’t want to end up heartbroken.
He’s the sweetest guy ever when it’s just the two of you. You’re getting the sense that he’s hiding you from his friends. “If you've been dating for a while, then that's a big, red flag when a guy never wants you to meet his friends or family,” Oshima says.
But the next day, he seemed kind of weird and distant. “It sounds like he's probably unsure of his feelings, or the feelings he experienced the night before may be something so new to him that it may be making him feel a little scared,” says Suzanne Oshima, a matchmaker and dating coach at Single in Stilettos.
“If every time you bring up the 'girlfriend' concept he shuts down, the worst thing you can do is to put more pressure on him,” Oshima says.
“It's important to find out the reason why he's averse to the idea of a girlfriend.” It’s likely that this guy is flat-out terrified of commitment or has been hurt in the past.
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“If you're an important part of [this] man's life, he will want you to meet his friends, so he can show you off to them." Next time he mentions his posse, ask to meet them!