One: the guy freaks out and reacts angrily or violently – it’s a trap, she’s a sex-worker looking for a client, whatever. – On the rare occasions that I do get a date, and I feel I make a good impression, I’m rejected after the first hurdle. – For me, It is not reasonable expect chemistry after speaking to a stranger for 2 hours, and 3 or 4 dates are required to see if there is any compatibility. Remember what I said about your having a Somebody, Anybody, Everybody problem? If you have chemistry with vibe, which is going to be a turn-off to just about every woman you meet.
So scrub up and snap on the gloves; it’s time to get all up in them guts.
Doctor Nerd Love, I need your advice to get me out of a very negative mindset.
Just me forever alone, and nothing I can do about it. And, once again: this isn’t an example of female privilege.
All this talk of female oppression and male privilege, but nothing about the female privilege…
Sometimes the answer is more nuanced than normal or requires cutting through a Gordian knot of related issues.