We are supposed to put a big part of the love we have inside into our own lives.
In my experience, once sons in this trap start feeling bad and looking for a way out, this idea of having personal choice and rights has the potential of putting a pretty healthy fire in their bellies.
Can you tell there is an underlying emotional maybe physical competition going on in this message? When you are truly married you are committed 100% to another woman, your wife/lover.
You’ve left one woman (mom) to fully commit to another (wife/lover).
You can get married, but that doesn’t mean you belong to anyone but ME.