Whether you opt for speed dating or online dating there is someone for everyone out there, and if after a few months nothing has happened and you grow impatient, then move on to the next form of dating.
I often tell widows and widowers not to make a major decision for over a year, and the same should hold true for the newly separated and divorced.
There needs to be a time of reflection, even regret, readjustment and thought.
That is not a good recipe for a happy second relationship and many people enter second relationships with unresolved issues from their first relationship.
In fact, many people pick the same wrong match for themselves the second time around, picking the same sort person they did the first time, when it did not work.
Not only is there a need for counseling, but there is often a need to go for counseling not only at the end of your first relationship, but as the new relationship, the second one or even the third one starts to get serious.