If she’s very shy too, take the initiative and order two different dishes and say: “if you don’t like yours, we can swap.” Tip 8: Compliment her There’s nothing that breaks the ice quite like a lovely compliment – so when you see your date, think of something nice to say about her image (whether that’s her hairstyle or her clothing choice for example).
Women love to feel desirable and appreciate it when you notice the effort they’ve made to look good for the date.
If being shy is stopping you from finding love, here are some top tips to help: BEFORE YOU START DATING Tip 1: Spruce up your wardrobe If the last time you spruced up your wardrobe was when your mum bought you a suit for your graduation, it’s time to hit the shops! If you’re not sure about the dress code, smart-casual is always better than scruffy as it shows you’ve made the effort.
Opt for a crisp, clean shirt and remember this top tip: women always pay attention to a man’s shoes.
Sometimes if you’re both shy, it’s good to have a list of these cues to fall back on.