The ‘other man’ gets painfully left out, not yet knowing that is the best thing that could happen to him.
All three people in this triangular arrangement have their issues.
Most people I’ve met who are afraid of intimacy, lose the fear when they accept and feel better about themselves.
Let’s do one at a time starting with the ‘other man.’ He is definitely looking for love in the wrong place and with the wrong person.
His superficial belief that he wants someone else’s woman for the convenience is a lie he defensively tells himself.
If you love a married woman and you’re in a love relationship with her, read this post.
You are engaged in what is commonly thought of as a ‘triangle.’ Triangles are rough on the heart.
Too many pieces for stability what you get instead is fragmentation, conflict, and limited intimacy.