That term is Sheng Nu and it translates as UNWANTED! Chinese girls are becoming increasingly aware of the higher status of women in the western world and they want to be a part of it.
For more information on this strange phenomena check out our article: Sheng Nu - The Unwanted Women of China. This can actually help you if you are a foreign guy interested in dating a Chinese woman, because the women in China today are often operating with a different set of expectations than most Chinese men.
Right now (October 2013) I’m living together with my Cantonese boyfriend and his parents.
We are in the process of renovating the old family house for us.
Or perhaps your Chinese is as terrible as his English but you want to make it work anyway?