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The same girl I mentioned before – her parents’ marriage was arranged by her father's commanding officer in the military, and I’d occasionally ask her, do you really think you should take dating advice from people who’ve never dated?

What this often leads to is heavy parental involvement in relationships and dating.

Once I asked a girl what she wanted to do for the date and she just never responded!

It’s also commonplace to bring a friend along, but not for a double date – it’s more like a chaperon, buffer or safety net.

This particular cultural difference, is, in my experience, a big reason so many intercultural relationships fail; I know one girl I met texted me five times the next day – a serious no-no for me but standard procedure for her.

The man is generally supposed to handle all the decision making in Chinese dating, and some girls take this very seriously.

You’ll often hear people say that cultural differences are overstated or not as much of a factor as they used to be, and while there is some validity to that, cultural differences are nothing to scoff at – they do most definitely exist.