She’ll secretly appreciate it more than you know and you’ll surely see a return of favor where you’ll most enjoy it.“I’m not gonna answer her call so she thinks I’m with another girl.” If you have ever said something along those lines, then grow the hell up and get out of here, amateur hour was over 30 minutes ago.Just because you’re her new boy-toy doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be acting like a man.
It’s okay to read a book or use the internet to help with some new and exciting ideas for the bedroom—I mean, here you are reading this—so find some new experiences that’ll leave her wishing she met you 20 years earlier. With just about everything, she has one leg up on you. Now, you may know more about sports than her or something specific, but when it comes to life-knowledge and the things that really matter, she’ll be there for you.
She most likely knows love and knows heartbreak all too well, she’s run with the wind and now the wind only runs through her hair, life can be tough and she knows that.
So man up and treat the relationship straight on for what it really is, or isn’t. crying for your attention or holding onto some other guy’s arm in the bar to make you jealous—she simply won’t deal with you anymore and she’ll move on to the next young stud looking for his shot with a cougar.
Due to her extra life experience and overall extra time to experience “some shit,” most cougars have been around the block a few times and have seen what there is to be seen.
No matter the case, never feel the pressure to check-in every day or introduce her to your parents—they could’ve gone to grade school together. There is little, close to zero, drama when dating a cougar.