Sometimes we project all our hopes and dreams onto someone we’ve just met, and that can be a bit much. No one wants a needy, desperate guy clinging to them.Women want someone who is active but who will make time to fit a special girl into his busy schedule. You should not initiate the sex discussions/pics/talks first.Just look at Mystery and his posse of pickup artists, a so-called “seduction community” that focuses on manipulating women to get dates. Despite any negative preconceived notions, what seduction really boils down to is intense attraction with a strong overtone of sexuality. Whether you want to seduce an older woman at a bar or woo a girl you see at the gym, it’s all the same tools.
On that note, also be courteous to her friends as well. If she has beautiful blue eyes, she’s likely heard every possible compliment on them.
If she’s a gorgeous natural redhead, she’s heard all the fiery comments you can come up with. This is when it’s right, and natural, to take it to the next level sexually. You both know it’s on, but enjoy the teasing and hotness of knowing what will come later. If you keep touching my neck like that, I can’t be held responsible for what happens next.” Seducing a woman in real life is not like you see it in the movies.
If you put her on a pedestal, you have high fear of loss. When it comes to seduction, the most important piece of advice I have is simply: Keep her always wanting more.
You’ll do anything to avoid offending her — even if that means placating her into boredom. This is an instance where less is more, where a short conversation can be more intriguing than a long one.
I've been on more dates than I can count, kiss closed a zillion, f-closed a zillion, and had a few meaningful relationships all from online dating.