When tempted to engage in “dormcest,” remind yourself that you’re going to have to face him—as well as everyone else on your floor, because they’re going to find out—for the rest of the year, no matter how good or bad your hook-up was.Just because he’s sitting alone and doesn’t speak to anyone in the class doesn’t mean he’s a total lunatic.
Take it easy if you’re just getting your feet wet with the whole dating game, and don’t feel a need to rush into anything intense. Show face as often as you can without being that girl that everyone expects to run into.
If they’re showing up for class at all, then you know they’ve at least got something going for them.
No, we can’t be certain that what all guys are looking for is sex, but that’s definitely a part of college hook-ups.
He might want it and he might even ask for it, but if you’re uncomfortable, it’s not up to you to give it to him.
If you’re interested, all it takes is a slow pack-up-and-hang-back after class to initiate conversation.