Internalize the mantra: NO MORE MISSED OPPORTUNITIES! Put yourself in situations where you are more likely to meet men with similar goals and if you choose to “play along the way,” always practice responsible safe sex.
"Please don't assume we're going to the nicest restaurant in the city because I won't take you there.
Without training, education, and support, many gay men are forced to “wing it” as they mingle and mate with other men, leaving many of them unsatisfied with their dating experiences and wondering if they’ll ever find a loving partner to settle down with. Creating a full life puts you in charge of your own happiness and puts less emphasis and dependency on finding a relationship to make you whole.
What follows is a tips list of things for gay men to keep in mind as they go about meeting other men in pursuit of their Mr. Add your own to the list and keep it handy as a quick-reference guide as you embark upon your dating adventures to promote greater success in your romantic life. You must be whole as a person first before a healthy relationship can be cultivated. Know who you are, what your needs and values are, and what you stand for.
Sometimes horror stories about them can make for fun discussion, but don't ever bring your ex into the conversation if it's not called for.