There is also a positive trickle over effect from having a relationship contract in the level of honesty that you then feel able to bring to every moment of your relationship…
the idea being, if you were that explicit and clear about your desires once, you can continue to do so on an ongoing basis.
But, in truth, the contract is a catalyst for a very honest conversation. What can we put in our contract that would make you feel safe, loved, seen, and cared for?
”You write down/type up all of the things that each of you wants to include, print it off, and sign it. you’ve just created your very own custom-made relationship contract! if you’re not sure where to start with your contract, much more detail is on its way.)I have had dozens of my partnered/married clients write up relationship contracts with each other and the benefits in their relationship (and my own, personally) have been far-reaching.
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