Why it works: Role play doesn't have to involve some crazy fantastical plot line, and you can totally explore things as yourself, Manta says.Phrase scenarios in present-tense so it feels like it's actually happening in real time.Why it works: Although much of phone sex involves noises, you should try to describe all of your senses — including sounds — in great detail.
Choose something that won't break the scene, like "that was so good" or "that was it." To that same point, you should also discuss who's going to start, so you're not both giggling in silence waiting for someone to speak, she says.
We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. I want you to tease me until I can’t take it any longer.
Why it works: Take your time, because the longer you have on the phone with your partner, the better phone sex will be.
Teasing your partner by telling them that you're "hovering" above or around their genitals will enhance the mental stimulation even further, and make them even more turned on, Manta says.
Why it works: If you're at a loss for words, simply name a body part, an action, and how it makes you feel.