For sixty-four agonizing minutes I analyzed whether or not the message I had left sounded cool and collected. My change of perspective began after I broke up with a girl I'd been going out with for two years.
For me, rejecting the dating game was a seismic shift.
Chapter One Boy Meets Girl What I've Learned Since I Kissed Dating Goodbye The clock read P. She began her familiar end-of-the-day routine: tidied her desk, shut down her computer, straightened a picture on her bookshelf, got her coat from the closet, and said her goodbyes. I have received thousands of e-mails, postcards, and letters from singles of all ages from all over the world who want to share their stories, ask questions, and get advice.
He directs New Attitude Ministries and is in pastoral training at Covenant Life Church in Gaithersburg, Maryland. "If we aren't really ready for commitment, what's the point of getting into intimate and romantic relationships? "Why not enjoy friendship with the opposite sex but use our energy as singles to serve God?
His new wife, Shannon Harris, contributed to the I Kissed Dating Goodbye Study Guide and sings in the contemporary Christian music group New Attitude. She enjoyed her job at the church, but she was ready to go home and unwind. From my vantage point, Shannon Hendrickson seemed happy, confident, and oblivious of me. As I watched her drive away, I whispered my own prayer. " To my astonishment God provided a publisher willing to print my oddly titled book. It turned out that many people besides me were rethinking romance.
She listened politely but said she could never live like he did.
"I respect you, but that's not for me." "Do you think you're going to heaven? "I think I'm basically a good person," she responded. She couldn't get Brian's questions out of her head. If He existed, would she be willing to live for Him? She read the book of Romans, which described her not as a "good person," but as a sinner in need of a savior.
She lifted her keys to the ignition, and then paused. The guy who had "kissed dating goodbye" was about to "say hello to courtship." Corner Table The next evening I arrived early for my meeting with Shannon. Shannon Hendrickson and I had been friends for about a year. I caught my first glimpse of her on the Sunday she got up in church and shared the story of how she'd become a Christian.