” “What if he really is on the road to end his marriage for me?
” But you know the truth: he won’t leave his wife for you.
Maybe you feel like he’s the only man for you because he told you that you’re the only woman he truly loves.
I didn’t think anyone would read it because I thought it’d be easy to not cheat! Recently I’ve had some very honest conversations with my friends about dating married men, and I’ve realized that affairs are more common than I realize.
But no matter how common it is to fall in love with and date a married man, it is degrading, dishonest, and disappointing.
True love isn’t suppressed by secrets and deception. You must love him, otherwise you wouldn’t be sleeping with him because you know he’s another woman’s husband. You know it’s a toxic and painful affair – not a real relationship – and yet you keep hanging on.
True love does not involve lying and secret meetings, lonely nights and unhappy days. You hate yourself for sleeping with another woman’s husband, and you also tell yourself that you can’t break up with this married man because you love him.
After my reader Kay broke up with the married man she was having the affair with, she experienced deep grief and heartache. Now, she urges you to stop cheating with another woman’s husband. But the sense of freedom and self-respect you’ll feel after the breakup is empowering.