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I recently had a crush on a guy, and as I was praying, the Spirit of God said to me, “Lindsay, it doesn’t matter who chooses you, it won’t make you feel pretty, you have to see that in yourself first.” It hit me like a ton of bricks. it can be messy and slightly confusing, but it can also be very healing.
I was in a hurry for someone to pick me so that I would feel beautiful, so I would feel chosen, but that wasn't going to work. He is so interested in our dating life; He created marriage. I had a mentor once say to me, “Lindsay, look at every man as a brother until he says otherwise.” That helped me just to get to know guys instead of wonder and wish "is this the one" every time I was around a guy. It Won't be the Same Once You Get Married Godly girlfriends are a gift, and according to scripture, they are our sisters.
It's a gift to learn what we enjoy before we meet our mates. Travel by Yourself Yes yes yes, I can’t say it enough. I just went to London by myself for six weeks, and it was life changing. It's not selfish; it's an opportunity of a lifetime that not everyone is afforded.
You will meet the most interesting people, as it is much easier to strike up a conversation when you are alone.
You are His masterpiece, learning who you are in Him is an adventure of a lifetime.