It sounds like you're an adult woman who is working towards a decent future, and good for you having somebody there you can share a bit of the road with, if not all of it. It sounds like your mom wants the best for you and today it is hard to get a job. It sounds like your mom wants the best for you and today it is hard to get a job.
We all have our own standards and desires when it comes to that person we want to spend the rest of our lives with. It may become harder for those who are less educated. It may become harder for those who are less educated.
My mother is inordinately picky--the guy has to have a degree in a science/engineering/business field (i.e.
Yet, He has given us this commandment to honor our mother and father, which confuses me at times. and now she's telling everyone she's got 3 children instead of 2, even though they only differ 11 years........
Basically, I know what the answer should be---to stop taking my mother's words as God's and just chill out---but for some reason I feel guilty about it and am seeking more voices and opinions on this board. she didn't even want to see him on a webcam or talk to him online! she's crazy about him, makes stuff for him and buys his favourite food for him (fresh salmon that we can't afford)...... compared to this marriage, my first one was no marriage at all!
Parents have a way of thinking no one is good enough for their child but I'm finding more times than not they are correct...
DONT TELL MY MOM I SAID THAT ;) Wait and see doll your freaking out wayy too soon!
:) Love you, Mieke :kiss: Is your mom trying to date him?