At one point, he even confided that it had been his dream to have a wife and family since he was a young teen.
I realized that Kevin was an "old soul," and we were ready for the same things.
She says, "I asked myself, 'Will I be willing to submit even if his leadership is not as mature as I would like?
'" Leah also worried she might not always be able to meet Travis' physical needs and wondered if he might one day regret marrying an "old woman" who couldn't keep up with all of his activities.
I guess it was because I'd heard two or three stories of the woman being seven years older, so I'd sort of decided that was the outer limit of age difference acceptability. (And I would hit 31 a month before his next birthday.) Feeling defeated, I sat at the small wooden table in Starbucks, where I was meeting Kevin for the first time since my startling discovery. In case you're wondering, I married that guy eight months later.