Plentyoffish.com: Plenty of Fish (POF) is completely free to use and sign up. I also found that the overall quality of the members on POF was lower than the pay sites I mentioned above.
Sign up for POF when you have completely exhausted the other fine options above.
Match.com: Your best success if you are looking for gay and lesbian dating options will be to sign up for and then filter your search accordingly.
Gay Cupid.com: Gay is Cupid Media’s gay dating site.
Black People Meet.com: This site has a lot of users both in the U. For the best results, you can sign up for both sites.