Some guys have passed them off to me in first email or IM.I need to know a tad more about them before I call, but...That's not my opinion though, that the opinion of my female friend that's reading over my shoulder! Usually I have to know the person from somewhere i see more often than a bar or something. I just left a message about how I am respectful to women, and not a player. I am very attracted to her, and it would be her loss not to call me back.
Then things got tangled and I realized I just don't have the time or inclination right now, and that's not fair to anyone.
I'm a practical person FIRST, and I've had to take a deep breath and call back and hurt someone's feelings as nicely as possible. I suppose there are times when I don't call back as quickly as I should, there's something BIG going on in my life or I'm in Mexico or the darn phone lines are just down, again.
Avoidance is the general tactic practiced by most people to handle situations that they are mentally, spiritually, or physically too impoverished to otherwise deal with in a more civilized fashion. Check out the other posts on what the "good guy" (aka, needy guy) comes across as. Trying to tell them what we think they WANT to hear. Why when you give the phone number, do you never hear from them, I dont get it, it doesnt make sense to me, they want to date you or go for a drink, you give them the number.
They give you their phone number, and then avoid you. But it is less embarrassing/painful than refusing to give it to you straight. and they never call, dont know what to tell you, good luck, I know mine has been bad as far as getting calls back! You left a message that was rude or just plain unsexy2. After thinking about it for a few days she realized that she was just not into you.
I said oh ok then i figuered i give it a shot, atleast i get an A for effort and chalked it up as a loss, and started walkin away, then she goes well lemme have your number then so i gave it to her and without me even asking she wrote hers down with her name on it and handed it to me. im mean what the fuhk i called twice left a message, figured she didnt get it so i called again. i was like hey its joe from bla bla bla is it a good time to take with ya, she said can i call you back im at work. now i feel like that guy calvin from that movie waiting.