Upon realizing she was Cambodian, some men would simply abandon the conversation."I felt unwanted or unattractive because I wasn't really a Korean girl," said Lena.
That's the dilemma so many Asian women face when they delve into the world of digital dating.
As a group, Asian women are actually found that Asian female users were most likely to get messages from male users — but only if those men were not Asian.
By contrast, Lu Qi, a popular online relationship adviser with 26 million followers on Weibo, owes much of his credibility to being a single man in his early 30s, who presumably knows firsthand what such men really think of women.
He also said that his advice was based on extensive research in the social sciences and psychology.“Chinese schools don’t offer a proper education in love and relationships,” Mr. “People get their ideas mostly from TV dramas.”Asked whether he really believed there were rules governing love, he said, “You can’t measure love, of course, but there are some rules that apply to all relationships and social interactions.”He expounds on some of these in taped lectures he sells online, on such subjects as: “Teaching women to solve relationship problems in a scientific way.
Months after their first date, the couple discovered they had been classmates in preschool, and one year into their relationship Justin arranged to have the young students from their former school hold up signs that asked, "Will you marry me? How to boost the odds with a better profile: Use recent pictures (taken within the past year) and at least one good close-up headshot.