Taking it slow in dating
You might not agree with their logic, but I have met men and women who have stated this rationale.
At the same time, who knows, maybe he’s a womanizer/serial dater.
Do you want to date casually during the time that he’s dating casually or did you say that to establish a fair playing field without intending to act on it?
I would say get clear on those questions before making a decision.
I told him fine but I didn’t want to be casual forever and that I hadn’t been dating but will start if we’re not serious.