(4) The need of a parent with custody of a child or children of the marriage to occupy or own the marital residence and to use or own its household effects.
(5) The expectation of pension, retirement, or other deferred compensation rights that are not marital property.
If the court determines that an equal division is not equitable, the court shall divide the marital property and divisible property equitably.
The court shall consider all of the following factors under this subsection: (1) The income, property, and liabilities of each party at the time the division of property is to become effective.
In addition, the court may grant the victim of such treatment the remedies (4) Offers such indignities to the person of the other as to render his or her condition intolerable and life burdensome.