Let’s say it takes you two years minimum to emotionally recover from getting a divorce. For those of you who are wondering about my credibility to write a column about saving marriages, I will have you know that I am in possession of the absolute best credential necessary to be successful as a relationship expert: I have actually saved a marriage – my own.
How long will it take you to rebuild the life that you have right now if you decided to divorce and destroy it? Luckily for me, there are enough bad marriages out there that I don’t have to make any of this stuff up.
If you're interested in someone who's divorced, you can easily pursue a happy relationship with this person as long as you keep some things in mind. A recently divorced person may be somewhat cautious. Work on feeling secure in yourself throughout the relationship.
When it comes to family, and children, let your boyfriend decide when and how interactions will occur.
but, life has done a number on my outlook on the topic.